Has your idea of what makes a good friend changed as you’ve gotten older? View all responses Friendship or fiendship: the complicated mix of loving and/or hating, (but usually complex configurations in between based on difference of expectations between ‘friends’) relationships. This tiny verse I thought I wrote in response to this prompt, or at … More Friendship or fiendship: the complicated mix of loving and/or hating, (but usually complex configurations in between based on difference of expectations between ‘friends’) relationships.