There is a tremendous blog by Anatoly Liberman in the Oxford University Press blogsite on the etymology of the word ‘bother’ that should give us pause before answering this. This blog shows that the oriigin of the word ‘bother’ itself bothers lots of people. He writes: Bother is a late eighteenth-century addition to the vocabulary of English. … More To be bothered is to reject the passivity that is actually COLLUSION with injustice!