To Geoff, my husband, 80 today. With love, Steve.
Giving to my husband all he deserves Every nerve would strain. All those nerves Operating in concert are not enough For the rich symphony of fine stuff, Failure to avoid: no option I’d say As a celebration of this birthday. Time passes my dearest at such a pace Each year of our marriage I’d again … More To Geoff, my husband, 80 today. With love, Steve.

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